Tuesday, March 07, 2006

love and stupidity



My best friend forwarded this message to me. It says "One can never love without experiencing pain. But then we are given options; we can choose between the one we love and the one who loves us. It’s like choosing between love and stupidity. Love is when you go to the one who loves you and allow love to take place gradually. Stupidity is when you force yourself to be loved by the one you really love without knowing he loves another. Be wise enough in making your move. Love is a great feeling but it comes with a lot of hurting especially when you know that the person can never love you the way you want him to. Allow yourself to be happy. Allow yourself to be loved."

But i am in love, and I am stupid.

3 comments:

vatski said...

love has its prizes too, pains and joy.
sometimes we have to be hurt to learn our lesson.
but we never really learn. we love even if we know we could get hurt one day. it's probably bec loving, be it a 100% pain in the beginning, is already a joy in itself. a person who says love is bullshit is someone who is devoid of feelings. and a person who falls in love and gets hurt is someone who is capable of falling in love all over again bec he has a heart that functions like what it's made for.
naks! murag kamao! wahehe

wengkat said...

hey dear! es-tat-ue talking? if anyone reading it does not know u, he/she might think u r a love doctor...hehehehe. or may be an expert in the field of love. ummmm...but that's very true dear. love is a packaged deal, along with happiness comes pain. u will never understand what is real essence of loving unless u experience pain. just like what Jesus did, He died on the cross because of his love for us. sometimes we have to sacrifice and be hurt for the one we love. hahay... that's life.. we have to accept it.

vatski said...

hehehe! mura jud ko korek noh? hmm...
lagi dear..life is basically like that..alangan man sad puro joys..way lami di ba?
i mean u dont like ur pizza to be sweet. do u?
i like it very much with some spices in it. yummy! :D